One major takeaway this year for me is; the State of the art skill of JUST DOING ME.
“Just Do You”
This has literally become my favorite statement in the world, and the basis upon which I live by now.
I love people, I really do
I want all my friends and family, everyone around me to be great people, wealthy, high achievers and I’m sure they definitely wish so upon themselves too and we all definitely will make it big time and come out in shiny, glittery, bright, rainbow colors, and we’d be super rich, wealthy and…and……..….oh for heavens sake, cut the bullshit.
Hell no we all won’t!
Who are we kidding?
Yes I genuinely love everybody around me, yes I genuiely wish the very best for everyone but here’s the harsh reality
We all won’t make it big, and that’s the bittersweet truth.
You see in life as we know, there is a balance;
For the night exists, we know the day
Life is precious, because we know death
Joy wouldn’t feel any better if it wasn’t for pain
Better wouldn’t feel any special if it wasn’t for good
Good people wouldn’t feel so rare if it wouldn’t for bad people
You see? There is a balance to everything
For one to exist and so be cherished or despised
The other must equally exist.
There are over 7billion people worldwide and you logically of course cannot expect them all to fall under the same category. Many people have to be low achievers for us to identify high ones.
Humans we really love to deceive ourselves Oh how much we do this on a daily. We shy away from the life’s truths and harsh realities, and find so much comfort in the unrealistic world of the internet.
If you pause and think about it for a second,
From the beginning of human civilization there is a constant progression, a constant trend that will for sure last till the very end of humanity. What is that?
“A small percent is constantly always going to do exceptionally well.
The other majority? They’ll constantly applaud the minority that does exceptionally well.. new set of minority doing excellently? new set of majority applauding their excellence and this goes on, and on, and on, for generations to come.”
It is perspective, character and intentional effort that keeps you on the side which YOU perceive as better. And not everyone will be on the better side.
This takes us to what I like to call the “Perspective Law” that goes:
The way you as a person or individual perceives the world, and see the things in it, Almost never is the same as the next man does.
Although, there are people whose perspectives, shall match with yours,
You must find them, align with them,
and do things which you mutually consider as great or worthy.
It is this simple.. honestly
Many of your friends won’t necessarily be able to relate with you, or meet your expectations on many levels, not cause they’re bad or beneath, but because their Perspective doesn’t align with yours, and that, is absolutely fine.
It is absolutely okay if people around you aren’t on the same frequency as you.. on any level..by law of nature everyone’s evidently not meant to be on top. There has to be some in the middle, and some at the very bottom.
“Everyone’s has the potential to be something. But not everyone will..and that is absolutely normal..”
So, quit being so judgmental and just find new people you actually align with, and “Just do you”… let people “be them”
And this doesn’t mean you do not love them,
it simply means you love yourself good enough to tell yourself the truth and them, just about enough to let them be themselves.
Many people will not understand this simple concept and that is okay. JUST BE YOU.
You owe no man no explanation,
But to yourself you owe all thy greatness which you already are pre-destined by God!
Find yourself, and be yourself
Live life, Love life
Enjoy life,
and do good, whenever you can, wherever you can, however you can
Just Do YOU!
